The Book

Lead Follow Love is your invitation to be included in the private thoughts of two long-term Authority Transfer couples as they consider and explore a range of topics – from sexuality to sacrifice, from encouragement to disappointment.

Authority Transfer Relationships are a negotiated, consensual, non-egalitarian style of relationship. You might know it by a variety of other terms, like Power Exchange, Master/slave relationship, Dom/sub relationship, etc..

Lead Follow Love was written in a unique manner. The authors chose over two-dozen challenging and personal questions to explore. They sat down together for a series of writing sessions, each one with a 30-minute time limit. The essays you have in your hands have been lightly edited to remove any blatant spelling disasters and then ripped from their author’s clawing hands and dropped into a chapter. This book is a tapestry of perspectives that harmonize yet have counterpoint. These are the hardest topics the authors could find, the safest environment to explore them, the harshest time-limit to prevent taking the easy route – and they hope you will agree the result is beautiful.

& The Journal

so you can work side by side while reading the book.