Holidays can be hard for some of us….and even harder if you are polyamorous.

At the moment, I’d like to share some of the joys of polyamory though.

This holiday season has been pretty amazing!

Over the last few weeks and through the next few weeks, we’ll be doing all the things with our poly partners.

So far Dan and I have participated in 2 kink con weekend events where he was able to bring his 2 other partners. 3 of us spend Thanksgiving with our friends Kevin and katie. Monthly 4 of us participate in a zoom call with intent, getting to know each other.

This past weekend, I got to fly to Albuquerque and spend time with ‘Big D’. I asked his wife to send me pics after I left of him being Santa Claus at a company event with his wife/daughter/grandson. So cute!

Soon, 1 of Dan’s partners will be joining us in Phoenix with her husband and kids to visit their family. I’ll be hanging out with them part of the time and then all of us (and maybe their kids) will be getting together for dinner and then us adults off to APEX for them to watch Dan and I present (like we do) …..

It’s been an amazing year of poly!

These are moments that will end up in my ‘Joy Journal’.

See Tool #6/Compersion Journal (aka Joy Journal) in our book The Polyamory Toolkit