We teach this in our Flirting class…..and our Power Exchange/Polyamory classes….

How do you flirt with someone that is wearing a collar?

As someone that has worn a collar of ownership for over 20 years, I have found out that there have been some interested individuals that wanted to flirt with me or approach me, but they did not do so because they weren’t area of what the protocols were around my collar or my relationship with my owner DanielBelum.

I understand this, and realize it can be a little daunting when you don’t know if there are any rules or protocols.

But……there are many of us collar wearing peoples that are also polyamorous and we are missing out on opportunities of finding people to have relationships with simply because we aren’t aware that someone might be interested in us.

To that I say…..people if you are interested in a collared person, it’s usually ok to approach them and ask if there are any protocols you may have to navigate. For a lot of us, being respectful is all that required. As an owned person, I’ll let you know if you need to speak to Dan or if you can just have the conversation with me.

Since we are polyamorous and Dan trusts my judgement of people and what I need/want from someone ….No one needs to go to him for anything. UNLESS I decide to look for another power exchange relationship, then we have to get Him involved. But, he’s not going to make people jump through hoops. I don’t know of many dominants that have polyamorous followers that would make potential partners for their subs do that.

Approach
Be respectful
Ask questions
Be ok with the answer

Pretty Simple. So, if it’s fear holding you back from approaching a collared follower, take that breath and make a move.

We only have so much time in this world. Find your joy.

Just my 2 cents……